My grandmother, the one I lived with the majority of my youth, just passed away. I wrote something to be shared with family and friends at the funeral chapel… here it is:
I thought it’d be appropriate if I wrote this down as at times I can be a bit emotional…
My memories are infused with pleasant images and moments with Nana and I’d like to share a few….
like picking sun ripened tomatoes from her tomato patch
shelling peas and walnuts by hand for hours on end
making homemade fig newtons and molasses cookies in the kitchen
sitting in suspense during the last half hour of Murder She Wrote
listening to her say her nightly prayers as she knelt down in her bedroom
smelling the perfume she wore with her best Sunday dress, broach and high heels
learning about painting happy little clouds and nature scenes from Bob Ross next to her
singing along while standing in her regular pew at church
walking, speed walking mind you, down the country block as she stressed that I needed to always maintain good posture with my shoulders back, chest and head up
cutting oranges and toasting Roman Meal bread along side her for breakfast
I distinctly recall when I was young, probably 8 or 9 years old, I was crying, worried about death, scared that she would die someday, that I would die someday. She assured me as I knelt by her chair with her loving hand on my shoulder that I needn’t be afraid, that God had a plan and suggested I seek the pastor for guidance.
I am who I am today because of the experiences and influences of my family and am so fortunate to have lived with Nana for so many years. Even when I’ve been away, she’s always been with me and will continue to always be a part of me. I’ll always cherish those special moments and smile with my heart when I think of her. She was such a generous, kind, dedicated, firm, hardworking, loyal, compassionate and loving woman who has positively impacted our world. Thank you Nana.